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If you’ve ever rehomed a dog, you know the many emotions you experienced and may have suffered from your neighbor’s or friend’s judgmental comments.
The decision to rehome a dog is not an easy one to make. It’s a very emotional decision. Circumstances or expectations may shift, or illness might occur. There’s no shame in it – sometimes finding a new home is the most compassionate choice for everyone involved.
What are the reasons that could cause the decision to rehome?
One of the key reasons for rehoming a dog is often a failure to understand their needs. Whether you’re considering a mixed breed or a purebred dog, it’s crucial to research and understand their temperament, exercise and grooming needs.
For instance, if you didn’t realize that your new border collie needs upwards of four hours of exercise a day, along with added mental stimulation, there’s likely to be a significant disconnect if you’re a couch potato. Similarly, if you’re a fastidious housekeeper, a long-haired dog that sheds heavily may not be the best fit for you.
Surprise gifts
Well-meaning, adult children have given a puppy or dog as a surprise gift to clients we’ve worked with.
If you’ve ever brought a puppy into your home, you know how cute they are,
but pups come with incredible energy and training needs. If you’re not physically capable or not mentally ready to deal with the ever-present needs of a young pup, it may be best to find a home that can deliver on those needs.
Unexpected issues
Even when you do your best research and ask pointed questions about the dog you’re planning to bring home, there’s no guarantee the dog will get along well with you, unknown people or the animals in your home.
Dogs are living, breathing, sentient beings. They’re affected positively or negatively by prior experiences. Changing behavior takes time, and even with the best training advice, there’s no guarantee about how long it may take and how much progress can occur. During a dog’s behavior change, there will be peaks, valleys and plateaus. If you don’t feel capable, another experienced home may be best for all involved.
Living with a dog is a significant commitment, often spanning 10-15 years. Even with the best of intentions, sometimes it doesn’t work out.
Rehoming is never an easy decision and should never be taken lightly. Yet, it may be the best decision you can make for you, your family, and most of all, for the dog.
Lisa Lyle Waggoner is a Certified Professional Dog Trainer, Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer, Faculty for the Victoria Stilwell Academy of Dog Training and Behavior, the founder of Cold Nose College, and the author of The Original Rocket Recall: Teach Your Dog to Come. Visit coldnosecollege.com and rocketrecall.com.