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Stalking is often misunderstood or minimized, but it is a severe form of abuse that can have devastating consequences. Stalking involves a pattern of unwanted, repeated behaviors used to monitor, control, intimidate or instill fear in another person. These behaviors may include following someone, excessive calling or texting, monitoring social media, showing up uninvited, sending unwanted gifts, or using technology to track a person’s location.
Yes. Stalking is abuse. It is a tactic commonly used in domestic violence, dating violence and sexual violence situations, and it is rooted in power and control. Stalkers seek to dominate their victims by creating fear and uncertainty, making the person feel constantly watched or unsafe. Stalking can occur during a relationship, after a breakup, or even without a prior intimate relationship.
The dangers of stalking are significant and should never be underestimated. Research shows that stalking often escalates over time and is a strong predictor of physical violence and homicide, particularly in domestic violence cases. Victims may experience anxiety, depression, sleep disturbances, difficulty concentrating and post-traumatic stress. Stalking can disrupt every aspect of a person’s life, work, school, relationships and overall sense of safety.
Technology has increased the reach of stalking behaviors. GPS tracking, spyware, social media monitoring, and constant digital communication allow abusers to maintain control even from a distance. This can make it harder for victims to escape or feel safe.
Stalking is not romantic, harmless or a sign of love; it is a crime and a violation of personal boundaries.
If you or someone you know is experiencing stalking, help is available. Everyone deserves to live free from fear and intimidation.
If you or someone you know needs help, please call 911 or Reach the crisis hotline at 828-837-8064.
Cecilia Crawford-Faulkner is executive director of Reach of Cherokee and Graham Counties. You can reach her office by phone at 828-837-2097; email director@reachofcherokeecounty.org; or visit reachofcherokeecounty.org.