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Domestic violence is often viewed as a women’s issue, but men can also be victims.
Research shows that 1 in 4 men in the U.S. experience some form of intimate partner violence in their lifetime, including physical, emotional, financial or sexual abuse. However, male victims often face stigma, skepticism and a lack of resources, making it difficult to seek help.
Understanding male victimization is an essential part of ending the cycle of abuse. Who abuses men, female partners, male partners, family members, caregivers or even close friends?
One male victim said, “What’s the point? Who is going to believe me anyway?” Another one said, “I don’t want to get her in trouble. I just want the abuse to stop.”
According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control & Prevention, 1 in 7 men (14%) have experienced severe physical violence by an intimate partner. Nearly half (47%) of all men have endured psychological aggression from a partner; 60% of male victims report having a female abuser, while 26% of gay men and 37% of bisexual men experience violence in same-sex relationships.
Despite these alarming statistics, men often struggle to get support due to stigma and shame, lack of awareness and legal biases.
Support male victims by:
- Raise awareness. Acknowledge that domestic violence affects all genders.
- Encourage reporting. Ensure men know they have the right to seek help and be believed.
- Challenge gender stereotypes. Recognize that men can be victims and women can be perpetrators.
- Domestic violence is not a gendered issue – it affects everyone. No onedeserves to be abused.
Breaking the silence around male victimization is essential to ensuring that all survivors receive support and protection. By expanding resources, challenging stigma and fostering awareness, we can create a more inclusive and effective approach to combating domestic violence.
Cecilia Crawford-Faulkner is executive director of Reach of Cherokee & Graham Counties. Reach her office by phone at 828-837-2097; email director@reachofcherokeecounty.org; or visit reachofcherokeecounty.org.